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An Open Letter: ANDRUS Stands with Orlando

An Open Letter 

ANDRUS Stands with Orlando:

Supporting the LGBT Community, Healing Orlando and

Talking to Children about Trauma

 

In lieu of the horrific tragedy that took place early Sunday morning, we are all in a state of shock. A community of peaceful and innocent individuals were targeted and attacked. It is vital for all of us to stand in support of Orlando and the LGBT communities to help in whatever way we can. All of us at ANDRUS would like to express our deepest condolences to the victims, their friends and families and all affected by the attacks in Orlando.

In the wake of a community tragedy like this, we must take the universal precaution of knowing how to support each other and our loved ones through this time. It is not necessarily the event itself, but the inability to cope that defines something as traumatic. People may not need professional help, but they must get the support they need from within their own communities. Each of us needs to know what to look for in order to determine if the people around us need support. There are some easy symptoms to recognize to determine whether a loved one needs treatment. We can respond and take action by building care provisions for everyone affected in a simple and surprisingly easy way – through strengthening relationships with people we care about and making sure to reach out to each other with kindness and caring.

We must also remember that members of oppressed communities are already vulnerable to the impact of trauma. This terror attack took place within in an already polarized political context — thus making the impact on individual LGBT community members potentially even greater. The epidemic of adverse childhood experiences makes many adults in all of our communities vulnerable to the impact of a trauma like this one. This applies to all of us: the survivors, first responders, loved ones of those killed or injured, LGBT people around the country and their children and many others.

Many individuals have been directly affected by this event and exposure to this tragedy may trigger symptoms from earlier traumas. Therefore, support is essential. Florida Governor Rick Scott rightfully declared Orlando and Orange County to be in a State of Emergency. Sarah Yanosy, LCSW, Director, ANDRUS Sanctuary Institute, an international trauma institute specializing in the trauma-responsive Sanctuary Model, traveled to Orlando on Monday to serve as a support to community leaders and organizations in the area. We are grateful to have the opportunity to be there for the region during this crisis.

In addition to helping the communities, our focus turns towards children and helping them process such tragedy and horror. It is one of the hardest things we do as parents, as friends and as neighbors. The Sanctuary Model helps us to have a framework for thinking about and processing a traumatic event. We believe that community is the antidote to trauma. Additionally, our use of the SELF model to help process trauma and loss is powerful. SELF stands for Safety-safety among people, with people, and with yourself; Emotions – expressing them but not letting them rule your actions Loss – knowing that processing, holding, and honoring loss is essential to healing and Future – making sure to focus on a vision for the future to create hope and possibility.

Here are some basic tenets to remember when talking to children about a tragedy such as the murders in Orlando:

 

 

Our thoughts are with Orlando and those impacted by this tragic incident.

 

Sincerely,

Bryan R. Murphy

President and Chief Executive Officer

ANDRUS

 

 

For more information, please contact Peter Sobel, ANDRUS Media Relations Manager,

at (914) 965-3700 x1319